Saturday, September 10, 2016

Death: Let's talk about it - coffee morning with a difference

Death: Let's talk about it - coffee morning with a difference
10.00 am to 12.00 noon
Saturday 24 September 2016

Raising funds for Marie Curie

We are organising a coffee morning with a difference to raise funds in aid of Marie Curie Cancer Care, and everyone is invited. This will include a cake stall together with craft activities, information resources and prompts to help those difficult conversations about death to be started.

Apart from proceeds from the book stall which is offered by Cornerstone, Skipton, all other money raised from the coffee morning will help Marie Curie Nurses to provide more free care to people with terminal illnesses in their own homes or at one of the charity’s hospices.

This is our second death cafe/coffee morning event this year. Death is something we all face yet it is often difficult to talk about. This special coffee morning provides a safe and supportive space for you to drop in, have a cuppa, browse the resources, get hands-on with glass painting and other crafts to create a personal keepsake, and maybe start some of those difficult conversations around death. What you do whilst you're with us is entirely your choice; there'll be no pressure to do anything that makes you feel uncomfortable.

We feel this is a positive way in which we can support the local community. The more informed we are and the more easily we can talk about death, the more we are able to prepare for our own death, and offer meaningful support to the bereaved. On this occasion, the more money we raise, the more free care Marie Curie Nurses can provide to terminally ill people at home.

So please join us for coffee and make a difference.

About Marie Curie Cancer Care
Marie Curie Cancer Care is the leading charity providing care to people with any terminal illness in their own homes or in one of its nine hospices. The charity is also a leader in research into the best ways of caring for people with a terminal illness. In addition to this the charity designs and advises on end of life services and works to ensure that the best possible care and patient choice is at the heart of commissioning end of life care across the UK. All Marie Curie services are free of charge. Around 70% of the charity’s income comes from donations with the balance of funds coming from the NHS.
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Wednesday, June 15, 2016

Thackley Methodist Church – 127 Years Young!

Along with celebrating Her Majesty’s special birthday recently, at Thackley Methodist Church (TMC) we have also been celebrating our Junior Church Anniversary – and working out that the Queen has being reigning for around half the lifetime of the church! 

So what has the church been doing for all those years? Back in the day, besides being a big, busy church, it was the major social hub of the village, with all sorts of regular meetings and concerts – even spectacular productions of Gilbert and Sullivan operettas, with magnificent costumes hired from D’Oyly Carte!  Also, did you know Thackley Football Club grew from small beginnings made by the church?

Nowadays, besides hosting well attended special seasonal services, weddings, baptisms and funerals, TMC continues to serve the community by providing a safe, warm and welcoming community centre for a number of groups and organisations to call home. We happily share our premises on Friday evenings  with ‘Sorted’ youth church, a Church Army initiative, which is reaching and transforming the lives of numerous young people. We estimate around a thousand people cross the threshold – every week!  TMC also regularly supports a number of local, national and international charities.

As you can imagine, this all takes a lot of hard work from the church family members who voluntarily look after the buildings, organise the room bookings, take care of the administration and finances – and lead worship. There is a commitment in terms of money too - each local Methodist church has to be both financially self-sufficient and make a contribution towards the paid ministers and other costs of the larger Methodist organisation.
But we’re coming to realise that where we perhaps fall down as a church here in Thackley is that we’re not always very good at explaining why we do what we do.

There’s an old joke. Three Christians are waiting at the pearly gates to be admitted into heaven. St Peter asks them why they think they should be let in.

The Catholic replies, “Look – I’ve got my rosary – I’ve always prayed regularly.” St Peter lets him in.

The Baptist is next and says “I have my Bible – I’ve read the Bible every day.” St Peter lets her in too.

That just leaves the Methodist. “Why do you think I should let you in?” asks St Peter.
The Methodist holds out a covered dish saying, “Well, I’ve brought a casserole…”

Methodists tend to be practical people with a down to earth attitude and it has to be said, we do enjoy sharing food - hot drinks and biscuits as a minimum featuring at virtually every service and church meeting – but the reason we undertake all this work is for love.

We believe that God is love and wants us to share that love with the community around us. God walked the earth in human history in his son Jesus, who taught us about God’s loving character and gave us an example of service to follow, all recorded for us in the Bible. Then, by his self- sacrificial death on a cross, Jesus, by some glorious, mysterious means, tipped the balance between good and evil once and for all – good shall prevail – and love wins!
Right now, Jesus’ own Spirit is in the world, helping us along, pointing us towards God. For example, think of that feeling, when you hold a new born baby, see a beautiful sunset, hear a wonderful piece of music? That’s him. And you must have come across people who are so good, so loving, generous, kind and understanding that you feel better just for being with them? They are Spirit (not spirit!) filled.

At TMC we meet Sunday by Sunday (10.30 – 11.30 am – quite civilised) to pause, take time out of busy lives to think about God, to reflect on who he is, to thank and praise him, to learn more about him, to say we are sorry for the things we’ve got wrong, to ask for his help and to work out what he wants us to do next, both as a church family and in our lives as individuals. Some might argue that you don’t need to go to church to be a Christian – and that’s true – but is an hour a week really too much to give back to God, when he gives so much to us? The time it takes to watch two episodes of Coronation Street? Together, as a church community, lovingly helping and supporting each other, learning from each other, we can achieve so much more than as separate believers. God loves each and every person and has given us all individual talents and attributes that fit together like a beautiful jigsaw. If you choose not to bring your pieces along, the picture, although still recognisable, cannot be complete.

Talking of talents, if you like music, play an instrument and/or sing, you might really enjoy ‘Take a Second,’ from 6.00 – 7.00 pm on the second Sunday of each month, a reflective time where people bring along their musical instruments – and voices - to praise God and share together.

I’m sure others might be reading this who find it hard to believe in God at all, especially when they look around the world at the terrible things that happen, or who have experienced personal tragedy. Yes, we still ask why, too - often. We don’t pretend to have all the answers, but we trust that where love is, there is God also. Don’t feel for a moment that any lack of faith would exclude you – we really mean it when we say all are welcome at TMC.
Also, through the summer, we’re hosting coffee mornings from 10 -12 noon each Saturday, with pretty china and cafetiere coffee (and biscuits of course) to offer a little treat to the community – do drop in.

Going back to those pearly gates – they’re not there anymore – Jesus took them off their hinges and stands there himself, arms open wide to welcome us in when we get there – but he’d very much like us all, with the help of his Spirit, to work together to make this part of his world a bit more heavenly, before we get there!  Please come along and take your place in your church in Thackley, part of God’s Church.

Every blessing to you and yours, from everyone at TMC.

Jackie M, Local Preacher

Saturday, June 11, 2016

Community Coffee Mornings

We are trialling a weekly coffee morning between 10 am and 12 noon each Saturday between now and September.

We hold it in our lounge area which means you'll need to use the door into the community centre. 

We hope you will join us.

Let's talk about death - Death cafe

After much planning, prayer and preparation, we held our Death Café on Saturday 14 May 2016. Whilst we cannot claim to have been inundated with visitors, we had some who had made the journey from Kirkstall and we know that we met the very real needs of some for whom bereavement is still very raw.

The ‘ Grave talk’ cards we’d placed on the coffee tables prompted some great conversations and despite them focusing on various aspects of death, gentle laughter could be heard throughout the morning.

Unbeknown to us at the time, it also provided an important time of preparation for the team which enabled them to support one of the team members who subsequently had to cope with a family death ... God works in mysterious ways, His wonders to perform!

It was also good to see folk busy being creative with the craft activities, whilst engaging in meaningful conversation.

Thanks also to Cornerstone Christian Books for providing a bookstall in a box.

There were lessons we can learn from; however, we took lots of positives from the morning. We now have a great set of resources and plan to repeat the whole thing again in the not too distant future.

Monday, March 07, 2016

Let's talk about death

10.00 am to 12.00 noon
Saturday 14 May 2016

When I am down and, oh my soul, so weary;
When troubles come and my heart burdened be;
Then, I am still and wait here in the silence,
Until you come and sit awhile with me.

Westlife’s You raise me up

Death is something we all face yet is often difficult to talk about. Our Death Café provides a safe space for you to drop in, have a cuppa, browse stalls/resources, and share conversations about death: things we’d like to do before we die; how we can support those who are grieving or deal with our own grief; our wishes for when we die, and more.

We hope you will join us.